My situation

You are in a specific situation and do not know which page to read. Find yours below: each one points to the two or three pages that actually answer it.

The site has more than two thousand pages across four sections. If you know what you are looking for, the menu is enough. If you are in a situation and do not know where to start, this page is for that: find the sentence that describes you, and the two or three links under it answer in the order the questions actually come up.

I am looking for someone

I have just signed up to an app
My daily life no longer produces new faces
Someone online is asking me for money
The person I love lives abroad
I don't know which app or site to choose
I have a first date

We are moving in together

We are hesitating between marriage, partnership and cohabiting
We are organising a wedding
We do not know how to handle money together
We wonder whether we need a pre-nuptial agreement
We want to stop using condoms
We want to buy a home together

Our relationship is in trouble

We no longer talk, or we always have the same argument
Desire disappeared after the birth
I am afraid of my partner
One of us drinks, uses drugs or cannot put the screen down
I can't tell whether this is a rough patch or something worse
We no longer have sex

We want a child, or we have one

We are trying and nothing happens
We are a same-sex couple and want a child
We are expecting a child
We are looking for childcare
I am worried about my teenager
Since the birth, nothing works between us

We are separating

We have just decided to separate
We are wondering who keeps the children
I find myself alone
I don't know which divorce route to take
I cannot afford a lawyer
We are each starting again

Health and body

I took a risk and want to get tested
I want to change contraception
Something is wrong with my sex life
I don't know which test to ask for, or when
Sex hurts
I sleep badly and feel worn out

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