Indonesia: adoption, child custody, inheritance and IVF

Adoption in Indonesia is governed by Government Regulation No. 54 of 2007, which requires adopters aged 30 to 55 who share the child's religion and leaves the child's blood ties with the birth parents intact. Divorcing parents are bound by the 1974 Marriage Law and, for Muslims, by the Compilation of Islamic Law (children under 12 stay with the mother), while inheritance follows the Compilation's fixed shares in the religious courts or the Civil Code's rules, and the 2023 Health Law confines assisted reproduction to lawfully married couples.

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Adoption

Indonesia allows adoption only by court order, for a child under 18 who is neglected or abandoned, by adopters aged 30 to 55 who have been married at least five years and share the child's religion (Government Regulation No. 54 of 2007, arts. 12 and 13); the adoption does not cut the child's blood ties with the birth parents (art. 4).

Legal basisChild Protection Law art. 39 (as amended by Law 35/2014); Government Regulation 54/2007
ChildUnder 18, neglected or abandoned, in family or institutional care, in need of special protection; under 6 is the priority (art. 12)
Adopting coupleAged 30 to 55; married at least 5 years; same religion as the child; no criminal record; no children or one child (art. 13)

Full detail: Adoption

Assisted reproduction

Assisted reproduction is open only to a lawfully married couple with a medical finding of infertility, using the spouses' own sperm and egg and implanting the embryo in the wife from whom the egg came (Health Law 17/2023, art. 58; Government Regulation 28/2024, art. 111); implanting an embryo in another woman's womb is expressly forbidden (art. 112(3)).

Who may use itA lawful married couple (Health Law, art. 58; Regulation 28/2024, art. 111(1))
Medical conditionA medical examination must show infertility (Regulation, art. 111(1))
Genetic materialThe spouses' own sperm and egg only; embryo implanted in the wife from whom the egg came (Health Law, art. 58(a); Regulation, art. 111(2))

Full detail: Assisted reproduction

Childcare

Child custody and maintenance after divorce are governed by arts. 41 and 45 to 49 of the Marriage Law (Law No. 1 of 1974), by the Child Protection Law as amended in 2014 and, for Muslims, by arts. 98 to 106 and 156 of the Compilation of Islamic Law. Under Government Regulation No. 9 of 1975 the competent court is the religious court (Pengadilan Agama) for Muslims and the district court (Pengadilan Negeri) for everyone else, and the 2006 amendment of the Religious Courts Law lists child custody among the matters of marriage that the religious courts decide.

The Marriage Law says that after a divorce both mother and father keep the duty to maintain and educate the children, solely on the basis of the children's interests, and that the court decides if they dispute custody (art. 41(a)). The father is responsible for all costs of the children's upkeep and schooling, and if he is in fact unable to meet them the court may decide that the mother bears part (art. 41(b)); the court may also order the former husband to provide a living allowance or another obligation to the former wife (art. 41(c)). The parents' duty lasts until the child marries or can stand on his or her own, and continues even if the parents' marriage has ended (art. 45(2)). A child under 18, or never married, is under the parents' authority and is represented by them in legal acts (art. 47), and parents may not sell or mortgage the child's immovable property unless the child's interest requires it (art. 48).

Parental authority can be withdrawn for a fixed time by court decision, at the request of the other parent, relatives in the ascending line, adult brothers or sisters or an authorised official, where a parent grossly neglects his or her duties or behaves very badly; the parent must still pay maintenance (art. 49). If a child is not under parental authority, a guardian is appointed, who may be named by a dying parent in a will or orally before two witnesses (arts. 50 and 51). The elucidation of art. 49 of the Religious Courts Law lists among the religious courts' powers custody of children, an order that the mother bears the costs where the father defaults, withdrawal of parental power and the appointment of guardians.

For Muslims the Compilation adds more detail. On divorce, the care (hadhanah) of a child who is not yet mumayyiz, that is under 12, belongs to the mother; a child who is mumayyiz chooses between father and mother; the costs are borne by the father (art. 105). Art. 156 repeats this and lists who takes over if the mother has died: the women in the ascending line from the mother, then the father, then the women in the ascending line from the father, then the child's sister, then the father's female blood relatives on the side line. If the holder of custody cannot secure the child's physical and spiritual safety, even though the costs are paid, the religious court may on a relative's request transfer it to another entitled relative (art. 156(c)). The father pays the costs of care and maintenance according to his means, at least until the child can stand alone as an adult, put at 21 (art. 156(d)), and the court may set the amount having regard to his means (art. 156(f)). Art. 98(1) also sets adulthood at 21 for a child without physical or mental disability who has never married, whereas the Marriage Law counts under 18 (arts. 47 and 50).

The Child Protection Law, as amended in 2014, says every child has the right to be raised by his or her own parents unless a valid reason or legal rule shows that separation is in the child's best interests and a last resort. If a child is separated from a parent, the child keeps the right to meet both parents directly and regularly, to receive care, upbringing, education and protection from both, and to receive living costs from both (art. 14). Parents are bound to raise, maintain, educate and protect the child and to prevent child marriage, and where parents are absent or unable these duties may pass to the family (art. 26).

Key points

Duty after divorceBoth parents keep caring for and educating the children; the court decides custody disputes (Marriage Law, art. 41(a))
Who paysThe father; the court may make the mother share if he is in fact unable (art. 41(b))
How longUntil the child marries or can stand alone, including after the parents' marriage ends (art. 45(2))
Age of majorityUnder 18 (Marriage Law, arts. 47 and 50); 21 for a child without disability who has never married (Compilation, art. 98(1))
Muslim custodyChild under 12 with the mother; child from 12 chooses between father and mother (Compilation, art. 105)
If the mother has diedHer female ascendants, then the father, then the father's female ascendants, then the child's sister, then the father's female relatives (art. 156(a))
Father's support (Muslims)According to his means, at least until the child is an adult at 21 (art. 156(d))
Withdrawal of parental authorityFor a fixed time, by court decision, for gross neglect or very bad behaviour; maintenance continues (Marriage Law, art. 49)
Competent courtReligious court for Muslims, district court for others (Government Regulation 9/1975, art. 1(b))

In practice

  • File in the right court: the religious court if the parties are Muslim, the district court otherwise (Government Regulation 9/1975, art. 1(b)); the religious court also decides custody, the mother's share of costs, withdrawal of parental power and guardianship.
  • For a Muslim claim, work from the child's age: art. 105(a) places a child under 12 with the mother, while a child from 12 chooses, so bring the child's birth certificate and any evidence on the child's wishes and on each parent's ability to ensure safety (art. 156(c)).
  • State the costs you ask for: art. 41(b) of the Marriage Law and art. 156(d) and (f) of the Compilation tie the amount to the father's means, and the court may also fix a living allowance for the former wife (art. 41(c)).
  • If a parent grossly neglects the children, a relative in the ascending line, an adult sibling, the other parent or an official may ask the court to withdraw parental authority for a fixed time (art. 49); the parent's maintenance duty continues.

Cost and coverage

The sources opened for this page give no court-fee schedule and no standard amount of child maintenance.

Recent changes

Law No. 35 of 2014 added a second paragraph to art. 14 of the Child Protection Law, which now spells out that a child separated from a parent still has the right to meet both parents regularly and to receive upbringing and living costs from both.

Where to go

  • The religious court (Pengadilan Agama) for custody, maintenance and guardianship between Muslims; the district court (Pengadilan Negeri) for other parties (Government Regulation 9/1975, art. 1(b)).
  • The court that decides withdrawal of parental authority and the appointment of a guardian on request of relatives or an authorised official (Marriage Law, arts. 49 and 51).

Worth knowing

The Marriage Law counts a child as a minor until 18, but the Compilation of Islamic Law puts adulthood, and with it the father's duty of support, at 21; this page describes the statutory text and does not cover later court rulings on these articles.

Frequently asked questions

Who gets custody of a young child after a divorce?

For Muslims the Compilation places a child under 12 with the mother (art. 105(a)) and lets an older child choose (art. 105(b)). The Marriage Law, which applies to everyone, only says that the court decides disputes on the basis of the child's interests (art. 41(a)).

Until what age must a father pay child maintenance?

The Marriage Law runs the duty until the child marries or can stand alone (art. 45(2)); the Compilation says at least until the child is an adult, at 21 (art. 156(d)).

Can a parent lose parental authority?

Yes: the court may withdraw it for a fixed time from one or both parents who grossly neglect their duties or behave very badly, on request of the other parent, ascending relatives, adult siblings or an official; maintenance continues (Marriage Law, art. 49).

Sources

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Inheritance

Indonesia has no single inheritance code: for Muslims the religious courts apply the Compilation of Islamic Law, under which a lone daughter takes half the estate and a son takes twice a daughter's share (art. 176), whereas the Civil Code gives children equal shares without distinction of sex or birth order (art. 852) and protects a forced share (arts. 913 to 914).

Court for MuslimsReligious court, for succession between persons professing Islam (Law 3/2006, art. 49(b))
Daughters (Islamic rules)One daughter: one half; two or more: two thirds; with sons, each son twice a daughter's share (Compilation, art. 176)
Surviving spouse (Islamic rules)Widower one half, or one quarter with children; widow one quarter, or one eighth with children (arts. 179 and 180)

Full detail: Inheritance

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