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International dating — Pakistan

The nikah is the marriage; the NADRA registration is what the rest of the world will ask you for.

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The context

Family involvement is central and negotiations usually run between the two families rather than the couple. A large diaspora in the UK, the Gulf and North America means most transnational relationships already have a path worn into them.

Entering the country

A visa is required for almost every nationality; an online system exists and should be used through the official portal. Family visit visas ask for an invitation and proof of the relationship.

Weddings and what makes them count elsewhere

The nikah is contracted before witnesses with a nikahnama setting out the mahr. What matters for anything outside the country is the registration and the NADRA marriage certificate, then attestation by the foreign ministry and legalisation by your own embassy. See civil marriage in Pakistan.

Getting there

Direct flights from the Gulf, the UK and parts of Asia; from elsewhere a connection. Check travel advice for specific regions before planning internal travel.

Customs and family

Mayun, mehndi, the nikah, the rukhsati — the bride's departure — and the walima given by the groom's family spread the celebration over several days. See wedding customs in Pakistan.

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Two absolute limits, whatever your home

Two conducts are punished here as in all other countries: paying for sex abroad and any relationship with a minor. Home-state law applies to you wherever you are. If the victim is a child, nearly every state sets aside dual criminality and the need for a complaint, which leaves prosecution and trial in your own country possible whatever the local law or authorities may say. See sexual offences committed abroad.

If you met online

These red flags do not depend on the country: a very rapid emotional escalation, a systematic refusal of video, an urgent request for funds, pressure to leave the platform. The rule is the same here as elsewhere: you never send money to someone you have not met in person. A sincere person is happy to video-call, to meet in a public place and to introduce you to the family.

Spotting and reporting a romance scam — Pakistan

The whole site on Pakistan

Every section of the site has something on this country: 35 other pages in all. They are brought together below.

Sexuality

Health

Advice

Marriage

Names

Rights

Official sources and links

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A page per question: the complete dossier

Getting there, and what it costs

Flights, seasons, internal transport, cash, insurance and orders of magnitude.

Things to do together, and meeting the family

What to do together, the customs to respect, and the money question.

Visa and entry

An online visa system that works, an invitation for family visits, and regional advice that has to be checked before any internal travel.

The regime that applies

A visa is required for almost every nationality. Categories include tourist, family visit and business, and the supporting documents differ — a family visit application requires an invitation from the host and proof of their status.

Registration and internal permits

Some visa categories require registration with the police after arrival, and certain areas — parts of Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, Balochistan, Gilgit-Baltistan border zones — require a separate no-objection certificate to visit.

Health

Polio vaccination proof may be required on exit for travellers staying beyond a certain period — an unusual requirement worth checking. Malaria is present in parts of the country. Food and water precautions are the practical priority.

Regional travel advice

Several regions are subject to restrictive or adverse advisories, which affects insurance cover and consular assistance. Check your own foreign ministry's current position for the specific area, not for the country as a whole — the difference between Lahore and a border district is total.

Getting married

The NADRA registration is what the rest of the world will ask you for.

The nikah and the nikahnama

Two of these deserve attention before signing rather than afterwards: the delegated right of divorce to the wife, and any conditions on a future second marriage.

Registration is the step that travels

The marriage must be registered with the union council, producing a marriage registration certificate and then a NADRA computerised certificate. Without it there is nothing to attest, nothing to legalise and no spouse visa application.

The attestation chain

For use abroad, the NADRA certificate must be attested in sequence: by the relevant provincial authority, then by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, then legalised by your own embassy in Pakistan. Start it the week after the wedding, not the month before the visa application.

Documents for the foreign partner

What to see

Five of the world's fourteen highest peaks, four UNESCO sites, and a tourism infrastructure that is only now rebuilding.

Where to go

Lahore

The cultural capital: the Badshahi mosque, the Lahore Fort and Shalimar Gardens — both World Heritage — the walled city, and a food culture that Pakistanis themselves travel for. The Wagah border ceremony each evening is theatre of a peculiar kind. Three days.

Islamabad and the Margalla Hills

Taxila, one of the great Buddhist archaeological sites of South Asia and a World Heritage site, is forty minutes away. Two days.

Hunza and the Karakoram

The valley beneath Rakaposhi, with Baltit and Altit forts, apricot orchards in spring and extraordinary autumn colour in October. The Karakoram Highway reaches the Khunjerab Pass at nearly five thousand metres on the Chinese border. May to October. A week.

Skardu and Baltistan

The approach to K2 and the Baltoro glacier, Shangrila lake and Deosai — the second-highest plateau in the world, a summer-only wilderness of wildflowers and brown bears. Serious trekking country and a genuine expedition, not a side trip.

Mohenjo-daro and Sindh

One of the principal cities of the Indus Valley civilisation, five thousand years old and a World Heritage site, with Sufi shrines at Sehwan and the old quarter of Thatta nearby. The heat outside winter is severe.

Peshawar and the north-west

An ancient trading city with a storytellers' bazaar and Gandharan archaeology in the museum.

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Further reading

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