Children, family and inheritance — South Africa

Adoption. The Children's Act 38 of 2005 governs adoption; the Children's Court makes the order, only accredited social workers may facilitate a placement, and the national register of adoptable children and prospective parents is central.

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Names

Home Affairs, not a court, handles a name change, and the update of the population register decides whether it counts.

Under the Births and Deaths Registration Act, the application goes to the Department of Home Affairs. A married person may take a spouse's surname, return to a previous surname, or use a double-barrelled form without a full application.

Key points

ProcedureApplication to the Department of Home Affairs under the Births and Deaths Registration Act
AuthorityDepartment of Home Affairs
Births and Deaths Registration ActGoverns changes of forename and surname
Married namesA spouse may assume, revert to or join surnames
Home AffairsProcesses applications, with long delays a recurring problem

In practice

  • Apply at Home Affairs and keep the reference number; follow up in person.
  • Verify that the change reflects on the national population register before updating other records.

Where to go

  • Department of Home Affairs for the formal change.

Worth knowing

Delays at Home Affairs are the main practical obstacle. Confirm the change appears on the population register before assuming it has taken effect.

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Adoption

Chapter 15 of the Children's Act 38 of 2005 sets out who may adopt, how consent is given and withdrawn, and the effect of an order, which is full: the child becomes the child of the adoptive parents for all purposes. Only a designated child protection organisation or an accredited social worker may facilitate an adoption. The Register on Adoptable Children and Prospective Adoptive Parents, kept by the Department of Social Development, is used to match children with families.

The mismatch in South Africa is between need and process. Very large numbers of children live outside parental care, but only a small fraction are legally adoptable, and the procedural requirements — tracing, consent, sixty-day withdrawal period, RACAP listing — mean that a placement rarely happens quickly.

Race remains part of the conversation. Transracial adoption is lawful and common, and the Act does not impose a same-race requirement, but social workers weigh the child's cultural background among the factors, and families should expect that discussion during screening.

Customary care by the extended family is the default across much of the country and is not adoption: a child raised by a grandmother has no adoptive parentage and no automatic inheritance from her. Where the family wants legal security, the Children's Act offers both adoption and, alternatively, a court order granting guardianship or care.

Same-sex couples: joint adoption has been available since Du Toit v. Minister of Welfare (2002) and is confirmed by the Children's Act; the Civil Union Act 2006 opened marriage.

Key points

StatuteChildren's Act 38 of 2005, Chapter 15
CourtChildren's Court
FacilitationOnly accredited social workers and designated child protection organisations
ConsentWithdrawable within 60 days of signature
RegisterRACAP, the national register of adoptable children and prospective parents

In practice

  • Contact an accredited adoption social worker or a designated child protection organisation.
  • Complete the screening: interviews, home visits, medical and psychological assessment, police clearance and checks against the child protection and sexual offences registers.
  • Be placed on the register of prospective adoptive parents.
  • Be matched with a child, often after the child has been on RACAP for the prescribed period.
  • Attend the Children's Court for the adoption order, then obtain the amended birth certificate from Home Affairs.

Cost and coverage

Adoption through a state social worker is free. Through a private accredited social worker, fees run from R 15,000 to R 40,000. Intercountry adoption costs more once the foreign agency and travel are counted. South African law provides ten weeks of adoption leave for one adoptive parent of a child under two, with parental leave for the other.

Recent changes

Long delays in clearing children through RACAP, and a shortage of accredited social workers, have kept the number of adoptions low relative to the number of children in need of permanent families; the Children's Amendment Act has sought to simplify parts of the process.

Where to go

  • Department of Social Development, adoption services
  • Accredited adoption social workers and designated child protection organisations
  • Children's Court in the district where the child resides
  • National Adoption Coalition South Africa
  • Department of Home Affairs, for the amended birth record

Worth knowing

Payment for a child is a criminal offence; only prescribed professional fees may be charged, and unaccredited intermediaries operate illegally.

Frequently asked questions

Who can facilitate an adoption in South Africa?

Only an accredited adoption social worker or a designated child protection organisation. Anyone else offering to arrange a placement is acting illegally.

What is RACAP?

The Register on Adoptable Children and Prospective Adoptive Parents, the national database used to match children and families.

Can single people and same-sex couples adopt?

Yes. The Children's Act permits adoption by single people, married couples, civil union partners and permanent life partners.

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Assisted reproduction

South Africa combines wide access — single women, same-sex couples — with one of the world's few fully regulated surrogacy regimes, confirmed by the High Court before conception.

Assisted reproduction is governed by Chapter 8 of the National Health Act and the Regulations Relating to Artificial Fertilisation of Persons of 2012, which cover donor screening, record keeping and the confidentiality of donor identity. Access is not restricted by marital status or sexual orientation. Surrogacy is regulated separately by Chapter 19 of the Children's Act 38 of 2005: the agreement must be confirmed by the High Court before conception, at least one commissioning parent must be genetically related to the child, and only expenses may be paid.

The combination is unusual: liberal access rules, compensated egg donation within limits, and a surrogacy regime that is strict but workable because a court settles parentage before anyone is pregnant. Most countries have one of these features, rarely all three.

Donor identity is confidential under the 2012 regulations, which is increasingly out of step with international practice and with the reality of consumer DNA testing. Donor-conceived South Africans have begun to press for change.

Access in practice is shaped by money, not law. Public IVF exists at a handful of academic hospitals with long waiting lists, so the great majority of treatment is private, which excludes most of the population. This is the gap the law does not address.

Same-sex couples: access is open, and section 40 of the Children's Act recognises both partners as parents where artificial fertilisation was used with consent. Surrogacy is governed by a court-confirmed agreement and is open to same-sex couples.

Key points

LawNational Health Act Chapter 8; Regulations Relating to Artificial Fertilisation 2012
AccessNo restriction by marital status or sexual orientation
DonationIdentity kept confidential; compensation for donors permitted within limits
SurrogacyChildren's Act Chapter 19; High Court confirmation before conception
Genetic linkAt least one commissioning parent must be genetically related to the child
SectorMainly private; limited public provision at academic hospitals

In practice

  • Get a referral to a fertility clinic; public provision exists at a few academic hospitals but is heavily oversubscribed.
  • For donor gametes, work with a registered egg donor agency or sperm bank operating under the 2012 regulations.
  • For surrogacy, instruct an attorney: the agreement must be confirmed by the High Court before conception or it is void.
  • Plan the financing, since most treatment is private and medical schemes cover little.

Cost and coverage

An IVF cycle costs R 50,000 to R 90,000 including medication; ICSI and donor eggs add to that, with donor compensation of around R 10,000. Medical schemes typically cover investigations but not the cycle itself. South Africa is comparatively inexpensive by European standards and attracts patients from across the continent and from Europe.

Recent changes

South Africa's surrogacy framework, tested repeatedly in the Constitutional Court, remains among the clearest in the world, and the country has become a destination for intended parents from jurisdictions where surrogacy is prohibited — subject to the residence requirements the courts apply.

Where to go

  • Private fertility clinics in Johannesburg, Pretoria, Cape Town and Durban
  • Groote Schuur, Tygerberg, Charlotte Maxeke and Steve Biko academic hospitals, for limited public treatment
  • Registered egg donor agencies and sperm banks
  • Southern African Society of Reproductive Medicine and Gynaecological Endoscopy
  • High Court, for confirmation of surrogate motherhood agreements

Worth knowing

A surrogacy agreement not confirmed by the High Court before conception is invalid, and the child would be the surrogate's in law — the single most important rule in South African surrogacy.

Frequently asked questions

Can single women and same-sex couples access IVF in South Africa?

Yes. There is no restriction by marital status or sexual orientation.

How does surrogacy work?

Under Chapter 19 of the Children's Act: the agreement must be confirmed by the High Court before conception, at least one commissioning parent must be genetically related to the child, and only expenses may be paid.

Are egg donors paid?

They receive compensation within limits — around R 10,000 — rather than a commercial fee.

What does a cycle cost?

R 50,000 to R 90,000 including medication, more for ICSI or donor eggs.

Is donor identity disclosed to the child?

No. The 2012 regulations require confidentiality of donor identity, though this is increasingly debated.

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Childcare

Early childhood development moved to the Department of Basic Education in 2022, and a per-child subsidy is available to registered centres — but most children attend unregistered ones.

Responsibility for early childhood development transferred from the Department of Social Development to the Department of Basic Education in April 2022, a structural change intended to bring ECD into the education system. Registered ECD centres serving low-income children can claim a per-child daily subsidy, but registration requires compliance with municipal, health and safety standards that many small community centres cannot meet. Grade R, the reception year before school, is offered in most public primary schools.

The registration gap is the central problem. A large share of South African children attend centres that cannot register because the premises do not meet municipal requirements, which means they receive no subsidy and operate without inspection. The mass registration drive exists precisely to address this.

Grade R has near-universal reach through public primary schools and is the part of the system that works best. It is worth enrolling in the reception year at the school the child will attend, since it eases the transition.

Employing a domestic worker to care for children is extremely common and is fully covered by labour law: the national minimum wage for the sector, written particulars of employment, UIF registration and paid leave. Compliance is both a legal duty and, in practice, what keeps a good arrangement stable.

Key points

ResponsibilityDepartment of Basic Education since April 2022
SubsidyPer-child daily subsidy for registered centres serving low-income children
RegistrationRequires municipal, health and safety compliance; many centres are unregistered
Grade RReception year in most public primary schools
SectorLargely community and private, with fees charged directly to parents
Domestic workersCommon solution, covered by sectoral determination on wages and conditions

In practice

  • Check whether the centre is registered: registration affects the subsidy and indicates baseline compliance.
  • Ask about the ratio, the qualifications of practitioners and the nutrition provided.
  • Enquire about the subsidy if your household income is low; registered centres apply on the child's behalf.
  • Enrol for Grade R at your local public primary school in the admission period.
  • If employing a domestic worker for childcare, comply with the sectoral determination and register for UIF.

Cost and coverage

Community crèche fees range from a few hundred to around R 2,000 a month; private preschools in urban areas cost R 2,500 to R 6,000 and more. The per-child subsidy for registered centres serving low-income children reduces fees where it is received. A domestic worker's wage is set by the national minimum wage for the sector.

Recent changes

The move to the Department of Basic Education was accompanied by a mass registration drive, intended to bring thousands of unregistered centres into the system so that they can receive the subsidy.

Where to go

  • Provincial education departments, for ECD registration and subsidies
  • Department of Basic Education, for the national framework
  • Registered ECD centres and community crèches in your area
  • Municipal health and safety departments, for centre compliance
  • Department of Employment and Labour, for domestic worker obligations

Worth knowing

Most children attend unregistered centres, which receive no subsidy and are not inspected: registration status is the single most informative thing to ask about.

Frequently asked questions

Who is responsible for ECD in South Africa?

The Department of Basic Education, since responsibility transferred from Social Development in April 2022.

What is the ECD subsidy?

A per-child daily amount paid to registered centres serving children from low-income households.

Why does registration matter?

Unregistered centres receive no subsidy and are not inspected; registration indicates baseline health and safety compliance.

What is Grade R?

The reception year before Grade 1, offered in most public primary schools.

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Step-families

A parental responsibilities and rights agreement lets a step-parent acquire a formal role without adoption.

Children's legislation allows a parent to conclude a parental responsibilities and rights agreement with a partner or step-parent, which must be registered or made an order of court to take effect. It confers a defined share of responsibility without adoption. Step-parent adoption is also available. A stepchild does not inherit on intestacy, but may claim maintenance from the estate if they were being supported.

South Africa offers something most countries do not: a parental responsibilities and rights agreement under the Children's Act, by which a person who cares for a child — including a step-parent or partner — can acquire specified responsibilities and rights by agreement with the holders, registered with the family advocate or made an order of court. No adoption, no litigation, and the scope can be tailored.

Key points

AgreementA parent may confer responsibilities and rights on a step-parent by registered agreement
RegistrationRequired, with the family advocate or by court order
IntestacyA stepchild does not inherit without adoption
Maintenance from the estatePossible where the child was being supported
School and medicalThe agreement resolves consent questions
Customary lawFostering arrangements are common and carry no automatic legal effect

In practice

  • The agreement is the practical tool: it is cheaper and faster than adoption and does not remove anyone's rights.
  • It must be registered to have effect: an unregistered agreement does nothing.
  • Make a will naming stepchildren.
  • Customary fostering has no automatic legal effect; formalise it if you want it to hold.

Cost and coverage

Registering an agreement with the family advocate is free or very low cost. Adoption through the children's court involves a social worker's report and legal costs, though Legal Aid South Africa assists qualifying applicants.

Recent changes

The Children's Amendment Act has strengthened provisions on parental responsibilities and on the position of unmarried fathers, and courts have continued to give weight to the child's established caregiving relationships.

Where to go

  • Office of the Family Advocate, for registering agreements.
  • Children's court, for adoption.
  • Legal Aid South Africa and university law clinics.

Worth knowing

An agreement that is never registered is the most common mistake. Registration, or an order of court, is what gives it force.

Frequently asked questions

What is a parental responsibilities and rights agreement?

A written agreement under section 22 of the Children's Act between the child's parent and a person having an interest in the child's wellbeing, giving that person specified responsibilities and rights. It must be registered with the family advocate or made an order of the children's court, and it can be limited to particular areas.

Is step-parent adoption also possible?

Yes, under the Children's Act, with the consent of the other parent unless it can be dispensed with. Adoption is permanent and ends the other parent's rights, so the agreement route is usually the better fit where that parent remains involved.

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Inheritance

Freedom of testation is the rule, tempered by the maintenance claims of a surviving spouse and children, and customary male primogeniture was struck down in 2004.

The Wills Act 1953 gives wide freedom of testation. The correctives are the Maintenance of Surviving Spouses Act 1990, which allows a claim for reasonable maintenance, and the ordinary maintenance rights of minor children. The Intestate Succession Act 1987 governs intestacy. In Bhe v Magistrate Khayelitsha the Constitutional Court struck down customary male primogeniture, extending the Intestate Succession Act to estates previously governed by customary law. Estate duty applies above a substantial abatement.

Key points

StatutesWills Act 1953; Intestate Succession Act 1987; Maintenance of Surviving Spouses Act 1990
Freedom of testationWide, subject to maintenance claims
Customary lawMale primogeniture struck down in Bhe (2004)
Master of the High CourtSupervises the administration of every estate
Estate dutyCharged above an abatement, with a higher rate on large estates
SpousesIncludes partners in customary and religious marriages

Recent changes

Courts have progressively recognised partners in Muslim and customary marriages as spouses for intestate succession and maintenance, closing a long-standing gap.

Worth knowing

Every estate above a low threshold must be reported to the Master of the High Court within fourteen days of death: failing to do so blocks access to the deceased's accounts.

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