Sperm donation

Who may donate, what the donor goes through, what the child will be able to learn — and why anonymity is retreating almost everywhere.

Who it is for

Azoospermia, severe sperm abnormality after failed ICSI, risk of transmitting a serious genetic condition, female couples and single women where the law allows. Donor sperm is used in insemination when the uterus and tubes are normal, and in IVF otherwise.

Becoming a donor

Anonymity in retreat

The movement is clear and goes one way. More and more countries give the child, at majority, access to the donor's identity, having found that secrecy weighs heavier than truth. Two things settled it: the benefit, shown in follow-up studies, of telling early and plainly; and the collapse of anonymity through recreational DNA testing, which lets anyone trace a donor without his consent.

In practice: if you conceive with donor sperm today, assume your child will be able to find out. The question is no longer whether, but how and from whom.

Waiting times

They depend entirely on the number of donors and range from a few months to several years. Requested physical characteristics can lengthen the wait; depending on the country, choosing a donor on that basis is allowed or forbidden.

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Common questions

Will my child be able to find the donor?

In a growing number of countries, yes, at majority. And even where the law keeps anonymity, consumer DNA testing makes it practically breachable.

Should the child be told?

Follow-up studies agree: what weighs is not the information but learning it late, and from someone else. Early and plainly, in words a child can hold.

Does the donor owe the child anything?

No, provided the donation went through the official route: parentage is established with the intended parents. A private arrangement offers that security to neither side.

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