Not love — it cannot be measured —, but the behaviours that longitudinal studies of couples have linked to lasting or separating: criticism aimed at the person, contempt, defensiveness, withdrawal, and on the other side repair attempts, friendship, tenderness, plans. Twelve situations, the answer closest to your reality, and a commented result. Answer for yourself, not for the other; do it again in six months.
A questionnaire with answer choices: answer question after question, and your result appears at the end.
Inspired by the work of John Gottman and colleagues on the predictors of separation. Twelve questions do not replace an interview: a relationship counsellor has far more complete tools.
The secret of a lasting couple is first of all…
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