Relationship counter: how long have you been together?

The date you met, the wedding date if you are married: the counter gives days, weeks, the next round milestones, the next anniversary and the name of the next wedding anniversary — to share.

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A game, and an excuse: couples who celebrate their dates — not only the wedding, but the day they met, the first kiss, moving in together — report being more satisfied and more committed than others in research on couple rituals (Garcia-Rada, Sezer and Norton, 2019), not because the date matters, but because the ritual makes them pause and look back at how far they have come. The counter gives you the numbers; it is up to you to decide which ones deserve a dinner.

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What the counter works out

From the date you met, the counter gives the number of days together, the length of time in years, months and days, and the next milestones worth marking. The milestones run from 100 to 25,000 days: 1,000 days is just under three years, and 10,000 days a little over 27.

With your wedding date it adds the next wedding anniversary and its traditional name, for example 1 – paper, 5 – wood, 25 – silver, 50 – gold. The calculation runs in your browser: no date is sent or stored.

Milestones and their length in years

The years in the table are the number of days divided by 365.25, which allows for leap years, so a milestone can fall a few days away from the calendar anniversary.

Days togetherAbout
1003 months
3651 year
5001.4 years
1,0002.7 years
2,0005.5 years
3,0008.2 years
5,00013.7 years
7,50020.5 years
10,00027.4 years
15,00041.1 years
20,00054.8 years
25,00068.4 years

Wedding anniversaries, year by year

Years marriedAnniversary
1paper
2cotton
3leather
4linen
5wood
6iron
7wool
8bronze
9pottery
10tin
11steel
12silk
13lace
14ivory
15crystal
20china
25silver
30pearl
35coral
40ruby
45sapphire
50gold
55emerald
60diamond
65blue sapphire
70platinum
75diamond and gold
80oak

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