International dating — Nigeria

Statutory marriage is monogamous, customary marriage may not be — and only one of the two travels abroad easily.

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The context

Africa's largest population, an enormous diaspora and weddings that are major social events. Most couples hold an introduction, a traditional wedding and often a church or mosque ceremony — with the registry appointment as a separate, quieter step.

Entering the country

A visa is required for most nationalities, with an online application and, for some, issuance on arrival under an approved scheme. Yellow fever vaccination is required.

Marrying, and having it recognised

A statutory marriage under the Marriage Act is monogamous and produces a registry certificate — this is the document foreign authorities will ask for. A customary marriage is socially decisive but may permit polygamy and is not automatically recognised abroad. A foreign partner needs a letter of no impediment. See civil marriage in Nigeria.

Getting there

Direct flights from Europe, the Gulf and across Africa to Lagos and Abuja. Check travel advice by region: several parts of the country are subject to strong restrictions.

Customs and family

The alaga conducts Yoruba proceedings in verse; the Igbo igba nkwu has the bride find her groom and offer him palm wine; guests wear matching aso ebi. See wedding customs in Nigeria.

Points to watch

Two absolute prohibitions, wherever you live

Sex tourism and any relationship with a minor are punished here as everywhere, and your own country's law follows you abroad. For sexual offences against a child, almost every state sets aside dual criminality and dispenses with any complaint: you can be prosecuted and tried at home whatever the local law says and whatever the local authorities do. See sexual offences committed abroad.

If you met online

The warning signs are the same everywhere: a very fast escalation, a systematic refusal of video, a request for money for an urgent reason, pressure to leave the platform. The rule holds here as anywhere: you do not send money to someone you have never met face to face. Someone genuine will happily take a video call, meet in a public place and introduce you to their family.

Spotting and reporting a romance scam — Nigeria

Nigeria: everything on this site

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Visa and entry

Passport, visa regime, health, airports, and the intermediaries to avoid.

Getting married

What the local authority requires, the ceremony, and recognition at home.

Getting there, and what it costs

Flights, seasons, internal transport, cash, insurance and orders of magnitude.

What to see

The destinations worth the detour, realistic durations and the constraints.

Things to do together, and meeting the family

What to do together, the customs to respect, and the money question.

Further reading

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Page checked in September 2026. The instruments cited can change: if in doubt, confirm with the official source given.

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